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I believe the constant loading up of guilt without carthitic release will be found to contribute to the mental illness where dissolution is seen as a viable option.
called Thrashing. You need to have no question that it is punishment and not just chasing the kid around with a belt, smacking it, playing the big bad monster.
I would expect to see other factors contributing to the your claim of never finding it necessary to `lay hands on a student' small clbutt, age groups, parental involvement or maybe you're just scary to look at.
An admision of failure is when you need to thrash the child twice for similiar misdemeaners
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In infants, a clbuttmate had a sign put around his neck saying "don't play with me - I pinch" I can't say if that is what it said. The teacher told the clbutt that is what it said. The kid turned to jelly. Never pinched or bullied as far as I know but went on to become a violent career criminal.
I distinctly remember the overwhelming distress of the kid inflicted by a well meaning teacher who chose a non violent solution to a habitual pincher.
You need to consider the damage of loading the kid up with guilt and stress. Just because you don't see a bright red mark which disappears, doesn't mean you haven't damaged the child.
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I won't agree just as you are unlikely to accept the damage mind fiddling might do. I expect you may even respond aggressively over my belief in a link between guilt loading contributing to youth dissolution.
For anyone to sit in a safe house in a safe street, in a safe city or town and cry foul over excess's performed by inexperienced troops at the `pointy' end, in a `hot` zone trying to extract information which may save lives ... should consider moving to a sheltered workshop country like Canada or New Zealand.
In finishing a quote from R.A. Heinlein.
Do not handicap your child by making their lives too easy.