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You are getting to the bone of a problem with young people who don't, or can't, marry and have children. What you are saying used to be common knowledge. Kids grew up with brothers and sisters. They learned the crude laws of nature by observation and actually suffering the bullying of the others in the family.
Now they don't. Not are they growing up without the first hand experience of dealing with life in the raw but they often don't even have a FATHER in the house. How crazy is that. So they go from a mother, possibly out all day working, then to school with another female teacher, and go through all their school days with no grown male to learn from except in films.
Everything they learn in real life is feminine. Being 'nice'. They see males on screen in violence. No decency in males is shown by Hollywood, it doesn't sell. Hollywood took over the role of the fathers in film post Vietnam. That's no accident.
Males, American *white* males, have been villified ever since...and so have white male moral standards...by people with contempt for the religious background that created the moral standard.
