Declaration of Human RightsThe first is life. Man has a right to dignity, to health, a right to grow, so that he can blossom into his ultimate flowering. This ultimate flowering is his right. He is born with...
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I may be out-of-line in speaking for Jill, here, but she's offered to move to her parents' house to help take care of her father and her father absolutely is adamantly against it. He won't even let her come visit. She wants to visit because his days are numbered, but he won't let her. He's not in his right mind at this point and Jill is just going with his wishes.
My step-mom's mother had Alzheimers. It was *extremely* taxing on my step-mom and, like Jill, she wanted her mom to pbutt. Why? Because it wasn't her mother anymore. My step-mom dealt with her mother's condition for 5 years. Every day Frankie (my step-mom's mother) would ask, "Where's Gene, where's Gene?" Gene, her husband, pbutted away 7 years prior. Every day my step-mom had to deal with the issue of pbutting the news on to her mother that her husband of 55 years had already gone. Then the wailing and weeping would begin anew. Tell me, what's better in that situation? To wish someone to pbutt on or wish them life?
Jill's going through a lot right now. Please cut her some slack.
kili